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Affirming vs. Empowering: What's the Difference for LGBTQIA+ People of Faith?
You may have noticed more churches using the word affirming. That is good news. It means more congregations are speaking clearly against anti-LGBTQIA+ messages. More pastors are preaching that LGBTQIA+ people are beloved by God. More churches are opening their doors, their communion tables, and sometimes even their wedding calendars. But there is an important question beneath the word: Are LGBTQIA+ people only being welcomed into the church, or are they being empowered to hel
Mel Martinez
2 days ago6 min read


How to Find an Affirming Church Without Getting Hurt Again
Maybe you are looking for an affirming church. Maybe you are also afraid. You may have been judged, excluded, corrected, or told that God could not love all of you. You may have spent years trying to fit inside someone else’s idea of faith. You may still carry the sound of those words with you. If that is part of your story, please hear this first: You are not difficult to love. You are not too much. You do not have to earn a safe place in a faith community. Finding an affirm
Mel Martinez
2 days ago7 min read


You belong: A note from Pastor Mel + Dolly Night details!
Safe Harbor MCC A Note from the Pastor 15 September 2026 You belong, exactly as you are. Dear Friends, Just a little note in the middle of your week to remind you that you are thought about, cared about, and part of this community. Sometimes belonging looks holy and profound. Sometimes it looks like worship and prayer. And sometimes, apparently, it looks like rhinestones, karaoke, pizza, and somebody doing their very best Dolly Parton impression. 😁 Get your ticket at...
Mel Martinez
Sep 152 min read
Why is Christianity the "Right" Religion to Follow?
Question received in email: " So I was raised christian to give you a bit of a background. But as I got older I realized there was more...
Mel Martinez
Jun 17, 20255 min read
REPOST: UFMCC Statement on Minnesota Political Assassinations
ASSASINATION, SHOOTING IN MINNESOTA EXPOSE RAW NERVES, CHURCH LEADER SAYS Released: 14 June 2025 The assassination of former Minnesota...
Mel Martinez
Jun 17, 20252 min read
Prayer Matters
“….healthy prayer necessitates frequent experiences of the common, earthy, runof-the-mill variety. Like walks, and talks, and good...
Mel Martinez
Sep 13, 20245 min read
WICHITA FALLS PASTOR DEMANDS PUBLIC EMPLOYEES FOLLOW TEXAS ADMINISTRATIVE CODE
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE Wednesday, 28 August 2024 WICHITA FALLS PASTOR DEMANDS PUBLIC EMPLOYEES FOLLOW TEXAS ADMINISTRATIVE CODE Rev. Mel...
Mel Martinez
Aug 28, 20242 min read
REPOST: Practice Resurrection - Diana Butler Bass Sunday Musings
Many people think Easter is a day — and that day is now passed, the family gatherings over, the candy eaten. By ancient Christian...
Mel Martinez
Jul 6, 20231 min read
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